{"id":917,"date":"2026-08-01T11:32:11","date_gmt":"2026-08-01T11:32:11","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/imruls.blog\/?p=917"},"modified":"2026-08-06T10:23:32","modified_gmt":"2026-08-06T10:23:32","slug":"917","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/imruls.blog\/?p=917","title":{"rendered":"The Thing That Would Last"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">A few days ago, I was walking home, after coffee with a friend. A stranger called out to me.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: Hello, my brother. Let me guess, you\u2019re from Brazil?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: [slowing down]&#8230;No, but I\u2019ll give you another chance<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: Portugal?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: ..Okay, two more.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: South America, Egypt?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Nope. Okay, my turn&#8230; Nigeria?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: That side of Africa. Go West<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Benin&#8230;?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: More West&#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Mauritania&#8230;.? Okay, I give up.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: Gambia<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[I guess the game was over, but he kept speaking]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger:<\/strong> I came here through mountains and forests. I got to Italy from Libya.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: I read Libya was three separate tribes, before Euro colonists drew borders. And also that slave markets still operate there. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[A half-remembered thing my brain produced since curiosity got there before sensitivity.]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: &#8230;yes. It\u2019s a very dangerous place. There\u2019s a lot of trafficking<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: What\u2019s your name?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Stranger<\/strong>: &#8230;Yankuba. I wanted to ask if you could help me buy some food.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Okay, I can get you a few things if you tell me what you need. But hang back while I pop into the supermarket. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[I&#8217;m a Londoner. Directness is a reflex]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yankuba<\/strong>:&nbsp; My brother, thank you so much. I\u2019m living in a camp now, five or six bunks in a tiny space. And I came here with just the clothes on my back.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Who brought you here?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yankuba<\/strong>:\u00a0 Smugglers, big business. \u20ac300 each. 120 people on my boat.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Shit. That\u2019s \u20ac36k<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[Again, not the most sensitive response. When someone is being super open, my brain feels permission to inquire about systems and incentives. Trying to make sense of it all.]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yankuba<\/strong>: &#8230;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: What can I get you from the shop?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yankuba<\/strong>: Tuna. It lasts a long time. How much would you allow?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: I have around \u20ac40 till the end of the week.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yankuba<\/strong>: That\u2019s all? Then brother, don\u2019t worry. I don\u2019t want to use this money.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: No it\u2019s fine.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">[For context, I&#8217;d spent a third of my \u20ac120 weekly go-crazy allowance on CeraVe the day before]<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Inside Continente, I wandered past the shelves looking for something more substantial than a collection of tins. I found the hot-meals section, picked up half a roasted chicken, and then added a large can of tuna&#8230;the thing that would last. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Outside, I handed the food to Yankuba.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Yankuba<\/strong>: Thank you, my brother.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Me<\/strong>: Take care of yourself.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">We wished each other well, then walked away in opposite directions.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>A few days ago, I was walking home, after coffee with a friend. A stranger called out to me. Stranger: Hello, my brother. Let me guess, you\u2019re from Brazil? Me: [slowing down]&#8230;No, but I\u2019ll give you another chance Stranger: Portugal? Me: ..Okay, two more. Stranger: South America, Egypt? Me: Nope. Okay, my turn&#8230; Nigeria? 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